My parents were born during the Great Depression and understood money down to the penny. I still have their passbook savings accounts — small booklets filled with handwritten deposits and withdrawals that documented the flow of money through their lives. Every entry is a reminder of a time when financial stewardship was a necessity. Today’s teenagers and young adults live in a very different world. As many prepare to leave for college and manage money on their own, parents are asking important questions: Should they provide a monthly allowance? Encourage a part-time job? Help their children open a credit card? Many families understandably provide financial support during college — whether for tuition, housing or living expenses. In fact, according to Edelman Financial Engines’ What Money Means study, 43% of parents with adult children say they currently provide financial support, including 14% who say they provide a significant amount. Financial assistance has remained remarkably consistent over the past several years, suggesting this has become a normal part of launching young adults into adulthood. 1. Start with awareness: Help them see how money movesMost teens and young adults experience money only at the moment of spending. They tap a card, and the story ends there. But financial maturity begins with understanding how money actually flows into, out of and through our lives.About Adviser IntelThe author of this article is a participant in Kiplinger’s Adviser Intel program, a curated network of trusted financial professionals who share expert insights on wealth building and preservation. Contributors, including fiduciary financial planners, wealth managers, CEOs and attorneys, provide actionable advice about retirement planning, estate planning, tax strategies and more. Experts are invited to contribute and do not pay to be included, so you can trust their advice is honest and valuable.One good way to illustrate the value of money is to encourage them to track their spending — ideally for a month. The point is not to judge their choices — it’s to help them see patterns. If they are earning a paycheck, walk them through it. Show them the difference between gross and net pay, how taxes work and why payroll deductions matter. For students who take on a campus job, reviewing a paycheck can be an eye-opening lesson. Understanding why take-home pay is less than expected — and learning to budget around it — builds practical financial skills. Another way to teach financial responsibility is to let young adults pay for certain things themselves. Start small with discretionary purchases — the things they really want — and gradually move to necessities. Whether support comes through a monthly allowance or helps cover larger expenses, establishing clear expectations helps young adults learn to budget while still benefitting from a parent’s guidance. This is not about withdrawing support — it is about giving them the dignity of ownership. 2. Teach credit before they need itCollege is often the first time young adults are exposed to credit card offers. Before they apply, help them understand the difference between building credit and accumulating debt. Explain how interest works, why paying the balance in full each month matters and how credit utilization affects a credit score. It’s also important to discuss common credit card mistakes, such as making only the minimum payment, carrying a balance month to month, maxing out available credit, missing payments or treating a credit card as an emergency fund. These habits can lead to costly interest charges, damage credit scores and make it harder to reach future financial goals.In fact, nearly 60% of Gen Z credit cardholders say they typically make only the minimum payment on at least one credit card, according to a recent LendingTree report. The survey also found that many cardholders mistakenly believe carrying a balance helps their credit score and rely on credit cards as a substitute for emergency savings. Relying on minimum payments can become an expensive habit because interest continues to accrue on the remaining balance, making debt more difficult and costly to pay off over time.When used responsibly, a credit card can be a valuable financial tool. When used carelessly, it can become an expensive lesson.3. Help them start saving and investing earlyIf your teen or young adult has income through a job, helping them open a Roth IRA may be one of the most valuable gifts you can give. Even modest contributions to an individual retirement account can be powerful because time — not investment brilliance — is the most valuable asset a young investor possesses.The goal is not to teach them how to pick winning stocks. Instead, teach them the importance of regularly saving, broad diversification and patience. Show them how a low-cost index fund allows them to become owners of hundreds or even thousands of companies around the world. More importantly, help them understand the extraordinary power of compounding over decades. A teenager who invests a few thousand dollars today may find that those early contributions may become some of the most valuable dollars they will ever save.4. Model the behavior you want them to learnYoung adults learn far more from what they observe than from what they are told. One of the most effective ways to teach healthy money habits is to be open about your own experiences with money, including the lessons you’ve learned along the way.Looking for expert tips to grow and preserve your wealth? Sign up for Adviser Intel, our free, twice-weekly newsletter.Whether it’s sharing how you paid off debt, recovered from an overspending habit or learned the importance of saving for emergencies, these real-life examples can make financial concepts feel more relatable and achievable.According to the What Money Means study, 86% of Americans say their parents or upbringing influenced their relationship with money, including 35% who say the influence was major.Financial responsibility is not learned in a single conversation. When we help young adults understand money, we give them confidence, independence and a foundation for lifelong financial well-being.Related ContentHow to Budget for College Expenses Beyond Tuition3 Ages, 3 Money Lessons: A Parent’s Guide to Raising Financially Savvy KidsSchools Can Teach Kids About Money, But Guess Who They Learn From the Most?These Small Money Habits Stick (and Now Is the Perfect Time to Adopt Them)My 2 Key Rules for Investing Work Even When the Markets Are in a TizzyThis material was prepared for educational purposes only. Although the information has been gathered from sources believed to be reliable, we do not guarantee its accuracy or completeness.Edelman Financial Engines, LLC. Edelman Financial Engines® is a registered trademark of Edelman Financial Engines, LLC. All advisory services provided by Financial Engines Advisors L.L.C., a federally registered investment advisor. Certain services provided on an educational and guidance basis only. 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